It is most important that a child should be aware of constant, harmonious relationships between his parents. If you must quarrel with your partner, don’t do it before your child; and make it up before he can sense the rift. When parents quarrel, a child feels insecure and his loyalties are divided. For the same reasons it is unwise to speak disparagingly of your partner before you child or be disloyal in any way. Failings should be glossed over, never enlarged.
You will doubtless be anxious that your child should develop a sound character. But never resort to nagging which can not build character. By a good character you surely mean the voluntary adoption of good habits. That adoption will take place only if the habits are associated with pleasant consequences. You can not therefore be too generous with rewards and praise.
Bringing up children to become happy, self-reliant, well-integrated personalities is undoubtedly an art, one which is mastered only by much thought, imagination and self-discipline.
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If you must quarrel with your partner, don’t do it before your child; and make it up before he can sense the rift. When parents quarrel, a child feels insecure and his loyalties are divided.
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