Don’t Criticize and Complain

People are varied, unpredictable and fascinating. One should not judge them or try to reform them but understand them. You must show them that you really and honestly care for them by co-operating willingly with them and giving more, talking little. You will become vital to others if they could thus see your selfless interest in them. Noon likes being criticized or found fault with. Every one gets annoyed with those who contradict him. What is more, criticism, that too in public, curbs one’s enthusiasm. It makes the individuals sullen and resentful. One must, therefore, avoid criticizing others in public or for that matter even privately. Instead one can tactfully and diplomatically offer suggestions. What is more, before we even think of criticizing a person or complaining against his omissions and commissions, we should try to understand him. We should look at the matter from his point of view. Besides, by action, by concrete results etc. we can subtly bring to his notice the better and more effective methods of doing a particular job. This will make him like us more. On the other hand hasty, outright and sharp criticism will only make him hate us. He will try to justify himself and refuse to change or improve. Therefore to make and maintain favorable personality impacts, criticism and complaints should be carefully avoided.

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